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Building Relationships with Online Students

May 30, 2026

Dr. Yelena V. Solodyankin

In online school settings, the online teacher and student are separated from one another by distance and often by time, so knowing and understanding online students is an important factor in building teacher-student relationships. Research suggests that online students are successful if they respond to three different types of learner interactions: (1) learner-to-content (appropriateness of the course material and delivery), (2) learner-to-instructor (access and support), and (3) learner-to-learner (procedures for dialogue). Watson et al. (2014) noted that practical consideration of the role of a teacher in an online classroom similar to that of a traditional face-to-face classroom is important to ensure student success.

In fact, the knowledge can be co-constructed in online school settings similar to brick-and-mortar schools, where students from diverse locations and backgrounds can engage one another in learning activities, where collaborative projects can be developed, and where communities of inquiry can grow and thrive. Online teachers are using technology in creative ways to replace traditional brick-and-mortar school experiences, such as instant messaging, discussion boards, blogs, and video conferencing platforms. At Enlightium Academy, the teachers are establishing nurturing relationships with their students. 

Watson (2008) suggested that understanding students through the lens of attachment theory helps online teachers emotionally engage with students, sustaining belief in their potential for goodwill, seeing past their troublesome behavior, and providing a basis for genuinely caring for students. At Enlightium Academy, teachers place more emphasis on building a relationship than on controlling students. Archambault and Larson (2015), in their research discussing the pioneering of the digital age of instruction, stated that online teachers have more genuine relationships with students and more one-on-one interactions with them than teachers in brick-and-mortar schools. 

Even though the technology itself is a powerful tool, how it is used and to what extent requires the wisdom, knowledge, experience, and professional judgment of teachers when conducting their classes in the 21st century digital age. The basic needs of humans to connect and interact have not changed: to learn in ways that are creative, interactive, exciting, and relevant to one’s needs. For this reason, Enlightium Academy faculty and staff work tirelessly to make sure that the social aspects of its students are met. 

In addition to teachers’ support, parental involvement is still an integral part of any conducive learning environment at home. Green et al., (2007) indicated three major sources of motivation for involvement: (1) parents’ motivational beliefs and parental self-efficacy for helping the child succeed in school, (2) parents’ perceptions of invitations to be involved in schooling by the child, (3) parents’ personal circumstances that influence parents’ perceptions such as parents’ skills, time, and energy for involvement. All of these factors are important to students’ success in online school settings. 

Since 2003, Enlightium faculty and staff have served partner schools, online, and homeschool K-12 students. With parental support, excellent instruction, and a personalized approach to learning, Enlightium equips students with the academic, spiritual, physical, social, and emotional skills they need to succeed in life. For any other questions about Enlightium, please call (509) 319-2288 or visit EnlightiumAcademy.com.

References

Kennedy, K. & Archambault, L. (2013). Partnering for success: A 21st century model for teachers preparation. Retrieved from https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/ED561281

Rice, K. (2006). A comprehensive look at distance education in the K-12 context. Journal of Research on Technology in Education, 38(4), 425-448. doi:10.1080/15391523.2006.10782468

Watson, J., Pape, L., Murin, A., Germin, B., & Vashaw, L. (2014). Keeping pace with K-12 Online learning. An Annual Review of Policy and Practice. Retrieved from https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/ED535912

Nolan, A. W. (2016). The social and emotional learning and character education of K-12 online students: Teacher perspective. (Doctoral dissertation). ProQuest LLC.

Watson, M. (2008). Developmental discipline and moral education. In L. Nucci & D. Narvaez (Eds.), Handbook of moral and character education (pp. 175-203). New York: Routledge.

Archambault, L. & Larson, J. (2015). Pioneering the digital age of instruction: Learning from and about K-12 online teachers. Journal of Online Learning Research, 1(1), 49-83.

Kwok, V. H. Y. (2015). Robot vs. human teacher: Instruction in the digital age for ESL learners. English Language Teaching, 8(7), 157-163. doi:10.5539/elt.v8n7p157

Green, C. L., Walker, J. M. T., Hoover-Dempsey, K., & Sandler, H. M. (2007). Parents' motivations for involvement in children's education: An empirical test of a theoretical model of parental involvement. Journal of Educational Psychology, 99(3), 532-544. doi:10.1037/0022-0663.99.3.532

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About The Author

Dr. Yelena V. Solodyankin

Discover the inspiring journey of Dr. Yelena V. Solodyankin, the visionary founder of Enlightium Academy.

Dr. Yelena V. Solodyankin has more than 30 years of experience in the field of education. She founded an online Christian school in 2003, which is now Enlightium Academy. Since then, she has guided the development of seven brick-and-mortar private schools along the Northwest Coast within church communities.

She holds her PhD in Philosophy in Leadership Studies from Gonzaga University, Master’s degree in K-12 Guidance & Counseling from Whitworth University, and Bachelor’s degree in Human Services from Gonzaga University. She also attended Pedagogical University of Kyrgyzstan and received a Diploma in Christian Studies from International Slavic Christian College. Yelena is ACSI and Washington state-certified. 

Throughout her career, she has been devoted to preparing the next generation of leaders by making a difference in their hearts and minds. She has spoken at numerous educational conferences about the need for personalized Christian education and how she applied it to raising her three biological and five adopted children. 

Hear From Our Families

Don’t just take our word for it—listen to the stories of families who’ve chosen Enlightium and found success. Our community of over 5,000 online students speaks to the strength of our program and the profound impact it has on our students’ lives.

We love Enlightium!

This was our first year with Enlightium Academy and I love it for my daughter! She has grown so much spiritually and academically! The weight of having to do it all has been lifted since I have 3 small children as well. We feel supported in our homeschool life! 

Brittany R.
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This program is really focused on a good education for your kids.

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We went from discouraged to "We can do this!!"

The ability to adapt to our child’s learning challenges made for a smooth transition bringing joy that she is actually learning now and retaining the knowledge. We can not wait to tackle another year!

L. Allen
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Love the curriculum

Love the curriculum. The teachers are wonderful and caring. Any technical issues are resolved almost immediately and the billing department has excellent customer service

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We love Enlightium!

This was our first year with Enlightium Academy and I love it for my daughter! She has grown so much spiritually and academically! The weight of having to do it all has been lifted since I have 3 small children as well. We feel supported in our homeschool life! 

Brittany R.
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Greatest homeschooling program

This program is really focused on a good education for your kids.

Kristen S.
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We went from discouraged to "We can do this!!"

The ability to adapt to our child’s learning challenges made for a smooth transition bringing joy that she is actually learning now and retaining the knowledge. We can not wait to tackle another year!

L. Allen
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Love the curriculum

Love the curriculum. The teachers are wonderful and caring. Any technical issues are resolved almost immediately and the billing department has excellent customer service

EA Parent
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Prayers answered!

This education option has blessed our lives in so many ways. We will forever be grateful to Enlightium Academy.

Marman
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A wonderful experience

Enlightium academy has helped me so much in the homeschooling of my son. They have worked with our scheduling and been there with answers to any questions we've had. They have made this a wonderful experience.

Mandy
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My kids are making way better grades

I love the curriculum given to my kids and the teachers are very helpful. My kids are making way better grades with this program then they did in public school.

Michael
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Everything I was looking for

Enlightium Academy ended up being everything I was looking for. It offers a good, flexible curriculum that truly accommodates my schedule without sacrificing learning. Most importantly, they teach the Bible in such an amazing way. It’s just perfect—I don’t regret being part of this school for a moment.

Diliana S.
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Prayers answered!

This education option has blessed our lives in so many ways. We will forever be grateful to Enlightium Academy.

Marman
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A wonderful experience

Enlightium academy has helped me so much in the homeschooling of my son. They have worked with our scheduling and been there with answers to any questions we've had. They have made this a wonderful experience.

Mandy
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My kids are making way better grades

I love the curriculum given to my kids and the teachers are very helpful. My kids are making way better grades with this program then they did in public school.

Michael
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Everything I was looking for

Enlightium Academy ended up being everything I was looking for. It offers a good, flexible curriculum that truly accommodates my schedule without sacrificing learning. Most importantly, they teach the Bible in such an amazing way. It’s just perfect—I don’t regret being part of this school for a moment.

Diliana S.
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